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September 2022 / Rosh Hashana 5783


Dear Members of our Community,


Re: Child safety at synagogues over upcoming High Holidays


Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur mark the beginning of the Jewish new year. It is a special time of reflection and prayer. It is also a time when parents and children may spend long hours at synagogue. 


Children have a right to feel safe and be safe wherever they are, including when attending synagogue. They also have the right to expect that adults around them are keeping them safe and to know who they can tell if they do not feel safe. 


Child safety is a communal responsibility that requires organisations, parents and members of the community to each play a role. 


The purpose of this letter is to remind all involved of their responsibilities and what they must do to keep children safe. It is our hope that this letter is shared with members of the community and displayed in synagogues throughout the upcoming High Holidays and beyond. 




The combination of large numbers of children and lengthy periods in which parents may not know exactly where their children are, can pose a danger to the safety of children. When children are unsupervised, they are at higher risk of harm or abuse. This risk may be greater in organisations which do not have best practice child safety policies or procedures. 


This risk has materialised across all segments of our community and other communities, and within organisations including our synagogues.


It is important that the prevalence of child sexual abuse in all communities, including our own, is acknowledged and that the risk is taken seriously and addressed in accordance with best practices by synagogues  and all who attend.  






In many countries, there is legislation that synagogues, like all religious institutions, must comply with to keep children safe. Where there is not, synagogues have a moral and ethical responsibility to ensure the safety of children and to make sure that they have policies and procedures in place which are consistent with global best practices.


Parents are strongly encouraged to be vigilant in ensuring that they know where their children are at all times and that they are never left unsupervised. 


If you find yourself inside synagogue and you do not know exactly where your children are or who they are with, please go and find them and do not leave them unless they are appropriately supervised. 


It is important to note that appropriate levels of supervision differ depending on the age and maturity of the child.


All members of the community should ensure that if they see anything that makes them feel uncomfortable and which may give rise to concern for the safety of children, they report their concern, in the first instance, to the synagogue’s Rabbi or a member of the Board. If they do not believe that their concern has been appropriately heard, they should consider notifying relevant child safety authorities or VoiCSA.



  • Make sure your synagogue has provided you with information about the steps it has taken to keep your children safe and confirm that those safeguards are indeed being implemented. If it hasn’t, consider raising this with the synagogue Rabbi and/or Board and if unsatisfied, consider notifying relevant child safety authorities or VoiCSA.  

  • Doors should always remain open wherever children are playing where practicable. Children should only play in supervised areas that are highly visible and ideally covered by CCTV cameras. If you come across rooms or secluded areas to which children can gain unsupervised access, instruct your child that they should not go there and ensure that they play in more highly visible areas. Notify the synagogue’s Rabbi and/or a member of the Board that the room should be locked to prevent access and check that this has occurred. Children playing in private, unsupervised, secluded areas increases risk and provides an opportunity for harm to be caused. 

  • Encourage children to play with children who are closer to their own age. Children should spend most of their time playing with other children and not with adults. Tell your children that if any person is making them feel uncomfortable - whether an adult, a child their own age or an older or younger child – they should come and tell you or a designated adult. Ensure your children are aware of a few adults they can always tell if they feel uncomfortable or unsafe. 

  • Remind your children that they should never leave the synagogue premises (including to go to a friend’s home or with an adult such as a friend’s parent), or go to another part of the synagogue without checking with you first. 

  • Remind your children to always “ask first”. For example, if someone offers them sweets, they should say that they need to ask their parents first. “Asking first” serves both the need of protection and as a means of prevention, as it prompts both children and parents to check-in with each other. Children should never get sweets or gifts from someone who asks for something in return. For example, no kiss, hug, handshakes or ‘good yom-tovs’ as a pre-requisite to getting sweets or gifts. 

  • If a congregant is regularly distributing sweets to multiple children to whom they are not related (eg. a ‘lolly person’), discourage your child from approaching them unless your synagogue has informed you that the congregant is performing that role on behalf of the synagogue. If the individual is a volunteer of the synagogue, they should have completed appropriate child safety training. If they have not been engaged by the synagogue in that capacity, they should not be providing sweets. 

  • Teach your children, from an early age, that telling a parent is not considered a “breach of confidentiality” and that whatever the issue is, you will help them address the situation. Child sexual abuse thrives on secrecy. 

  • Accompany your children to the bathroom, even if they manage independently. Instruct older children to always go to the bathroom in pairs and wait for each other outside. 

  • Pay particular attention to bathrooms and note if you see the same person entering or exiting the bathrooms on multiple occasions with children not related to them. If this happens, immediately report it to the synagogue’s Rabbi and/or a member of the Board.  

  • Check on your children frequently. Be able to identify where they are, with whom they are playing and/or who is supervising them at all times. Just because someone is known and trusted does not make them safe. If the individual is exhibiting concerning behaviour (eg. such as seeking out children and spending time alone or in the children’s areas rather than in synagogue), be alert and present to safeguard your child and notify the synagogue’s Rabbi and/or a member of the Board. There is no substitute for parental presence. 

  • Safe adults model safe behaviors, and everyone at synagogue should be expected to uphold and champion child safe behaviours and help create a culture where children are safe. 

We wish you and your families a happy and healthy new year and hope that the information above contributes to a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone in synagogue.


Synagogue, Rabbi and/or a Member of the synagogue Board

VoiCSA (for general guidance only)




VoiCSA (for general guidance only)



With thanks to Sacred Spaces and AJO Consultants for their assistance.




Click here to find a comprehensive list of local victim support and advocacy organisations.


If you have immediate safety concerns about a child, please call the emergency police line in your local area. If you have any other concerns or issues involving child safety, please do not hesitate to contact the individuals or organisations listed below. This can be done anonymously if you wish.

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